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Shawn Whitlock
January 18, 1969 - July 21, 2017

Shawn Whitlock

Shawn Whitlock
Jan 18, 1969 - Jul 21, 2017

Shawn Whitlock
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Shawn Whitlock lost his fight on Friday, July 21, 2017 at the age 48. He was born Robert Shawn on January 18, 1969 but was lovingly known as Shawn, Shawnee Boy, Shawnee-G and Grandpa's Little Tiger. He immediately stole everyone's hearts with his big brown eyes and his loving nature. The first eight years of life, he grew up an only child, playing football and loving anything with wheels. He loved to make things faster. He was always fixing something up, from his pedal cars as a small child to his motorized toys as an adult.

Shawn helped take care of his sisters even though he got one after another and all he wanted was a little brother (neither of his parents would comply) but he took it in stride and accepted his sisters, loving them to death. He spent the next 8+ years being hounded every second. He could not get a moment of peace. Shawn even did their hair and nails; not just car guy stuff. He was truly the best big brother.

At age 9, he started delivering papers, but he got his first real job at 15 to buy a car, of course. He cut off his feathered locks and joined the work force as a box boy at Albertson's, then a job at McDonald's but that kind of work was not for him. Shawn moved on to a job at the marina, stripping boats and a reoccurring theme emerged... his love to be covered in dust from sanding. So, the boats later turned into cars and his amazing ability to do bodywork presented itself. He worked for Goodyear and several other businesses in the automotive industry, as well as some unusual jobs: Inno-vac, cleaning air ducts and even moving people with van lines, but he was always an inventor at heart!

When Shawn was 16, he met Hailey and at 20, he popped the question. They married and shortly after, their daughter, Cortney was born; his only child and his biggest joy in life. His previous experience with his sisters came to be a great asset when raising his daughter. He played barbies and hot wheels, bikes, colored, did her hair and nails. He even stitched up her cabbage patch babies when they were attacked by a vicious dog and fixed her spray tan faux pas when she got older. Delighted in his relationship with his baby, he even allowed her to dictate his hair style when she decided it was time for it to be business in the front and the back.

He never seemed to be able to master whispering for someone who's infamous quote was "DONT TELL MOM", or the ability to clean out his extremely thick wallet. Shawn loved to cook (mostly things only he would eat). He also enjoyed music (the louder the better), the saxophone and spending time in his home gym. As his father aged, he took care of him, helping with hospital visits, medications and his daily needs. Shawn was a man with an extremely caring heart and a desire to help everyone he could.

Shawn passed peacefully surrounded by his family. He was preceded in death by his dad, Douglas Whitlock, grandparents, Robert and Esther Morrell and Bill Frakes, brother, Steven Edwards and his father, Robert Frakes.

Shawn is survived in life by his precious daughter, Cortney Whitlock, his mother, Ann Whitlock, sisters, Marla Whitlock, Marsha Whitlock, Sabra Whitlock and Elisia Whitlock Macias, his aunts, Marsha Faamuli and Jeanette Morrell Stock, nephews, James Whitlock and Mykal Whitlock, niece, Shelby Izett, cousin, Zane Faamuli, his grandma, Becky Frakes, aunt, Christy Frakes Soares, uncle, Calhoun Frakes, sisters, Tara Frakes and Maria Frakes, numerous other nieces, nephews and cousins.
Shawn, we will love you forever!

 
 

Laena Clancy but name changed to Lanna Dundas year on Oct 14, 2021

Oh Baby, omg Shawn I just randomly found this memorial on the internet today oct 14, 2021. I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH!!! I WILL NEVER GET OVER THE LOSS AND HEARTACHE AND THE MOST DEVASTATING, SHOCKING HEARTACHE FELT WHEN YOU NEVER CAME HOME After leaving May 25, 2017 to run errands that night. I still can't comprehend your sudden decline of your departure from our world. .
WHY DID YOU HAVE TO DIE. I STILL FEEL YOUR SAD PRESENCE AROUND ME EVERYDAY., Just as you said TO ME DURING THE FIRST MONTH OF our RELATIONSHIP THAT IF YOU EVER DIED BEFORE ME, YOU SAID YOU WOULD ALWAYS BE With ME LOVING ME IN THE AFTERLIFE.
I CAN NEVER GET CLOSURE OR HEAL From the sudden LOSS OF MY LOVING GUY. It wasn't until August 2nd 2017 that I finally got my first answered text msg
from 1 person , a friend of your, after I had been texting people daily asking where and what happened to you. So weeks later on August 2nd around noon I did receive a cold text message unexpectedly saying that you had died and your friend said he missed your memorial cause he had to work that day. The. sadness of OMG What Happened and How Could Your Entirekin

family keep that from me. And Not even tell me that you had died and especially not even told me of any funeral memorial. How can anyone live with themselves knowingly that they are holding such a secret of life lost plus not even tell me or invitee to your funeral or memorial. . I remember you told me how much you loved me and I remember you wrote daily love letters to me every morning. As you promised I DO FEEL AND KNOW YOU ARE STILL WITHE

ME HERE IN THE AFTERLIFE. I MISS YOU. HUGS AND LOVE, LANNA

Cascade Memorial on Jul 20, 2018

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